Stop it at the Start - The Hidden Trends of Disrespect: Influencer – 15 second ad Watch the 15-second ad titled 'Influencer' to learn about the hidden trends of disrespect from the Stop it at the Start campaign. View text version [Phone alert] [Flurry of internet sounds] Influencer: Women don’t want you to be kind, they want you to control them. Voiceover: Do you know what’s influencing your kids? Learn the hidden trends of disrespect before they lead to violence. Authorised by the Australian Government, Canberra.